November 2007
In the BUUF, monthly newsletter of Berrien UU Fellowship
Auction * Beth * Birthdays * Building * Book Club * Calendar * Caring * Community Choir * Contact Us * Fires in California * PFLAG * Religious Education * UUA President * UU Wpmen in the News * Viola
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Beth Lefever, Religious Leader and Student Minister
 
BUUF’s Mission Statement:
To Question,
To love,
To serve,
To celebrate differences— Together.
 
our chalice, created by Lisa Dalgleish and the RE kids
 
 
 
In the BUUF is the monthly newsletter of the Berrien Unitarian Universalist Fellowship 4340 Lincoln Avenue, Saint Joseph, MI 49085-8712. Articles should be given to the newsletter editor no later than the 20th of the month.
 
 
 
 
ALONG THE WAY . . . BUUF Religious Leader Beth Lefever

“The War”
In the spring of 1945, after covering Wold War II for four years, CBS radio correspondent Eric Sevareid told his audience: “Only the soldier really lives the war. The journalist does not – war happens inside a man – and that is why, in a certain sense, you and your sons from the war will be forever strangers. If, by the miracles of art and genius, in later years two or three among them can open their hearts and the right words come, then perhaps we shall all know a little of what it was like…”

The miracles of art and genius did combine, it seems, in Ken Burns’ and Lynn Novick’s production of “The War” which aired in seven parts on public television this fall. It was a deeply moving account of four American towns and how their citizens experienced the war. It was an account that reminded those of us who lived it, and informed those of us who did not, in ways that allowed the viewer no room to remain unmoved.

We owe a debt of gratitude to Burns and Novick for, fifty years later, bringing us the first-person accounts that Sevareid longed to, but simply could not provide his audiences.

We owe a debt of gratitude to Marv Fuller who is sharing his knowledge and experience of the war in a classroom setting at Lake Michigan College.

We owe a debt of gratitude to all those willing and able to tell us what the war was like… what the war is like. For it is in these first-person accounts that we are most likely to finally find peace. It is in hearing the true horrors of war from those most intimately involved that we might best be moved to “study war no more,” to take up the study of peace as vigorously as we take up the study of war. It is in the first-person accounts that we are most effectively moved.

An estimated fifty to sixty million people lost their lives in World War II, more than 400,000 of whom were Americans. Though initially reluctant to enter the cataclysm, virtually every American citizen became invested in the cause: intent, involved, and willing to abide national deprivation and sacrifice in a common, unifying effort, the effort of creating a lasting peace.

That has not yet happened. And so let us continue to listen to the stories. Let us continue to make room for our veterans and our victims of war to open their hearts so the right words may come. Let us continue to be moved toward peace.

-- Beth


THANKS TO WORKERS - IMPROVING OUR BUILDING

The 4-hour Work Party at BUUF on Saturday, Oct. 20 was very productive due to the labors of Harvey Johnson, Dick Berndt, Ken Richards, Amy Cottingham, Teresa LaPlante and Emily Bettencourt. The shed was repainted, 3 apple trees were planted; trees trimmed and brush cleared near the entrance of the driveway, windows were washed inside and out; kitchen cabinets, appliances and table tops were washed; and the supply cabinet in the rear was cleaned out and reorganized; toxins were secured in the attic; the cabinets and drawers clearly labeled; and we all sat down together and had a delicious soup and sandwiches prepared by Chris Sirotiak. While not there on Saturday, thanks to Tricia Johnson for coming in earlier and washing the walls of the entrance to the Sanctuary, and Charles Long and Gary Cook who continue to repair fluorescent fixtures and change bulbs to give us light. It was good being and working together.

   
 
In the BUUF . . . November 2007
 
Rev. Viola Moore, Minister Emerita
 
We join, in the spirit of love, to develop our regligious attitudes objectively and honestly that life may be more meaningful.
 
 
 
BUUF’s Board of Trustees meets on the 4th Sunday of each month following the service. Contact Dave Sarra for more information.
 
Pastoral Letter . . . Rev. Viola Moore

Dear Members and Friends,

These halcyon days of Indian summer lift our spirits as we glory in the naked shapes of trees and bushes, normally hidden from our view. We are grateful for the honest outlines of our Autumn world and wish for the same honesty in our political world as the race for the presidency heats up. We are still burdened with the reign of unreason, an attack on reason, in the name of national security and religious faith. Concealed in the armpit of unreason is secrecy. What is being hidden from us? As children of the Enlightenment we want to know the secret. The only answer we get is fear. What do we fear?

Because our schools have done such a poor job in teaching critical thinking, we have a silent public not asking basic questions. What is the secret? Why must our scientists be carefully watched and monitored? They cannot attend conferences here or abroad without written permission from authorities in this administration. Research which is contrary to the ideologies of the administration is either redacted or refused publication. Some scientists especially in the medical and environmental sectors have simply resigned. How do we combat this unspeakable raid on reason? It is the Enlightenment turned on its head, and we helplessly ask, WHAT CAN WE DO? We can wake up, get involved and be passionate about justice. The central issues of the day are about justice to which high religion calls us. What is the public secret? Is it that the emperor has no clothes? We move confusedly between the known and half known, between rumor and ambiguity. What if in the name of justice the secret is revealed and the revelation backfires and becomes another form of concealment and secrecy?

The call to justice will not allow us to keep running on empty in hope for a miracle, or open ourselves to the really new. When the busy world is hushed, we can be quiet and calmly wait. What answers are you getting from your soul? For politics is always intensely spiritual. If we wait in absolute seriousness, we are already touched by that for which we are waiting. We are waiting for the power of love to transform us, so that we have the courage to transgress boundaries and ask the bold questions. Are we ready to struggle for a national health service in the name of justice? Are we able to confront the so-called training academies where we teach torture to anyone willing to learn? Some of our friends are already in jail! Are we willing to protest the planned attack on Iran based on some intoxicated rhetoric? Can we question the market forces when the commodity is everything and everything is a commodity?

What is your spirit telling you? Mahalia Jackson used to sing a moving spiritual, "AND THE ANSWER CAME"! In our silent meditations and reflections, the answer may come for you. And the Eternal may break in. We believe in original created goodness, and its power to lead us toward the light of reason. Remember the words of Tom Paine in "THE AMERICAN CRISIS" in 1780 -- "It is the madness of folly, to expect mercy from those who have refused to do justice; ...the cunning of the fox is as murderous as the violence of the wolf...I bring reason to your ears, and, in language as plain as A, B, C, hold up truth to your eyes."

As we celebrate THANKSGIVING, Let us remember our young people serving our country and all the victims of this contrived war. It is a terrible and beautiful time to be alive and called to witness.

Love,
Viola
89 this month!
 
BUUF Ministers
Religious Leader — Beth Lefever, minister@buuf2.org
Rev. Dr. Roger Brewin, Rev. Donald Wheat, Rev. Viola Moore (Emerita)
Board of Trustees
Dave Sarra, President, president@buuf2.org
Rev. Viola Moore, Vice President
Dick Berndt, Treasurer, treasurer@buuf2.org
Amy Eklund, Secretary
Bea Takeuchi * Tom Hackley * Gary Cook
RE Director — Teresa LaPlante, DRE@buuf2.org
Most PHOTOS for In the BUUF by Heartha Whitlow
Office Administrator/Newsletter Editor — Gretchen Ohmann, office@buuf2.org

   
 
In the BUUF . . . November 2007
 
Pacific Unitarian Church Rancho Palos Verdes CA
chalice of Pacific Unitarian Church Rancho Palos Verdes CA
Rainbow Flag
We Are A WELCOMING CONGREGATION
This Unitarian Universalist community welcomes and celebrates the presence and participation of bisexual, gay, lesbian, and/or transgender people.
 
 
 
 
 
 
Rev. William Sinkford, UUA board president
UUA President Bill Sinkford
 
 
 
BUUF Fundraising Auction and Chili Cook-Off will be November 3rd
 
 
UPCOMING EVENTS
[don't forget to check our online calendar!]
November 2 7 pm Book Club meets at Amy Eklund's house
November 3 the fun begins at 6 pm. Be here! BUUF Goods and Services Auction and Chil Cornbread Cook-Off
November 4 Rev. Roger Brewin "WHAT WOULD WE SAY? WHAT SHOULD WE DO?" A reflection on 145 pairs of boots (The number of Michigan fatalities in the Iraq War)
November 11 Beth Lefever "Just Wait & See"…WWII
November 18 Rev. Don Wheat topic to be announced
  4 pm All God's Children with Chicago Children's Choir at YWCA
November 25 Beth Lefever "Dear Small G: If & When & How UUs Pray"
December 2 Sandy and Larry Feldman "Children of Abraham: Can We Ever Learn To Get Along?"
December 9 Beth Lefever “Pay It Forward:  A Revolutionary Approach To Giving”        
December 16 Beth Lefever “When We Wend Homeward” 

PFLAG November 11 Program

The Reverend Dan Scheid’s topic: "My Kid's Gay...What Will My Church Say?" Are you reluctant (or even scared) to let your pastor and church family know what you just found out? Maybe the thought hasn't even crossed your mind. After all, most churches have taught us to disown and deny, cover-up, or pray for a "cure." It doesn't have to be that way. The Rev. Dan Scheid is the Rector of St. Augustine of Canterbury Episcopal Church in Benton Harbor. Dan will tell his story, discuss some of the "troubling" Bible passages, and offer you a message of transformation and hope rooted in experience.

All parents, family and friends of lesbians and gays, as well as all supportive community members are invited to attend the St. Joseph/Berrien County PFLAG meetings. Reservations are not needed and you do not need to be a member to attend, participate, and be welcomed and affirmed. The meeting will include opportunities for sharing in a safe, supporting environment and for informal conversation and refreshments.
Day and Time: The second Sunday of each month from 2:00 to 4:00 P.M.
Place: Berrien County YWCA, 508 Pleasant Street at the corner of Lake Boulevard, Saint Joseph, Michigan. Enter at the top of the steps at the Pleasant Street entrance and go up the inside stairway to the Out and Affirmation Center (OAC).
Phone (269) 429-6160 E-mail pflagberriencounty@yahoo.com
http://www.outcenter.org./pflag.htm


'UUA President Bill Sinkford at 2U In Chicago

Chicago's Second Unitarian Church invites you to join them on November 18 in welcoming Rev. Bill Sinkford, president of the Unitarian Universalist Association, as guest preacher in honor of the church’s 150th anniversary. Rev. Sinkford’s words will focus on honoring our connection to the broader UU faith community and the imperative to speak up and welcome others to join us as an integral part of our covenantal faith. Second Unitarian Church is located at 656 W. Barry Avenue; services are at 10:00 and 11:30. For more information, contact 2U's church office at 773-549-0260.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY
birthday candle
Tom Hackley November 13
Lisa Dalgleish November 17
Wayne Weberg November 22
 
Larkin Johnson November 23
Rev. Viola Moore November 28
Vincent Tedesco November 28

When's your birthday? Let Gretchen know the date and we'll make sure you're on the list.

   
 
In the BUUF . . . November 2007
 
Teresa LaPlante
 
RE Vision
The purpose of the Berrien Unitarian Universalist Fellowship religious education program is to provide:
  • A sense of community
  • Knowledge of UU history
  • An understanding of world religions
  • A spiritual sense
  • Connection with nature
  • Social action
  • A grasp of how to talk about UUism with other children
Adopted by the RE Committee January 2000
 
 
 
 
"Though I do not believe that a plant will spring up where no seed has been, I have great faith in a seed... Convince me that you have a seed there, and I am prepared to expect wonders." -- Henry David Thoreau
 
Religious Education . . . Teresa LaPlante, DRE

Greetings to All,

As the circle of the year turns through Autumn and we finish our preparations for winter, we find our steps slowing and our thoughts turning inward, as we, with nature go into this natural time of renewal and restoration. Myself, I like the excuse the short days and cool nights give me to curl up with a good book. Like Henry David Thoreau, I love to learn. May we plant many seeds of thought and learning, so that we and our children can grow in knowledge and spirit.

Renee Kauffman Presents Special Thanksgiving Lesson to Children

I will be leaving for Texas November 10-18 to welcome my second grandson into this world and to witness my brother's wedding. My brother has been 10 years a widower, so this will be a happy occasion. I will not be at BUUF on November 11 & 18. On November 11, there will be no teen class. In the elementary class, I know our confident and able teachers will carry on in my absence. On November 18, students are in for a treat as Renee Kaufman returns to lead them in a special Thanksgiving project on "If BUUF Were the World." This project will give our children a new thankfulness for all the food they will eat on Thanksgiving, as well as make them more aware of those who are not so blessed. This will lead us naturally into our holiday giving project, "Empty Bowls."

Empty Bowls is a giving project that was actually begun in Michigan when an art teacher helped his students make ceramic bowls for a fund-raising meal. Guests were served a simple meal of soup and bread, and were invited to keep the bowl as a reminder of hunger in the world. Our creative BUUF children will make and design their own ceramic bowls to sell filled with soup (date to be announced). Monies raised will be given to a hunger-fighting organization (local or international) chosen by the students themselves after their "If BUUF Were the World" experience.

Adult Religious Education

For adults at BUUF, we will be offering two classes this year:
Experiential Spirit Journeys
(Winter class, beginning January 9, 7:00pm and January 12, 7:00pm)
Cakes for the Queen of Heaven: In Ancient Times
(Spring class, beginning in April)

Experiential Spirit Journeys
I'm a firm believer in experience being the best teacher. Thus, we will begin 2008 with Experiential Spirit Journeys, a weekly hands-on guided class on ritual body postures and spirit journeys. This class is based on the book, Ecstatic Body Postures, by Belinda Gore, now leader of Cuyamungue Institute in New Mexico.

Cuyamungue Institute was founded by Felicitas Goodman, an anthropologist who, when she became interested in physiological changes that occur in the religious trance state, found herself on a journey that led to her eventual development of a method for teaching people to enter this non-ordinary state of consciousness, using ritual posture.

Ritual posture is the doorway to Alternate Reality, a name given to the layers of reality perceivable from various altered states of consciousness. There are over 70 known such postures that allow unique exploration of the world of the Spirit for specific purposes including healing, divination, spirit journeys, myth making, ritual planning and metamorphosis. These postures are not contained in any one religion or culture, but are shared by many, if not all of them in one form or another.

The trance state is induced by a simple ritual for preparation, introducing auditory stimulation such as drumming or rattling, and assuming a ritual posture for fifteen minutes. That's it. Anyone with a healthy nervous system can be trained to enter and leave the trance state quite easily, in the appropriate ritual setting.

   
 
In the BUUF . . . November 2007
 
Inanna
The Sumerian Goddess Inanna from Cakes for the Queen of Heaven: In Ancient Times by Rev. Shirley Ann Ranck
 
 
 
 
To contact Teresa, e-mail
DRE at buuf2.org
 
 
 
 
 
 
Sophia Lyon Fahs
Sophia Lyon Fahs
 
In our hour-long class, we will try a different posture each week (for 6 weeks). The purpose for each posture will not be explored until after we attempt the spirit journey (done by simply listening to the drumming/rattle and relaxing). We will then compare experiences and see how our journeys line up with what was intended. The experiences I had when doing just one of these postures has greatly changed my outlook on life and on spirit. I highly recommend it.

Class Information: This class is open to anyone 14 years and older. Class size will need to be small (no more than 12 students), so registration is a must. You can register online at our website or pick up a registration form at BUUF and give to Teresa. Cost for the class is $10/person. Because of the small class size, we are going to offer two classes at 7:00pm: one on Wednesdays, beginning January 9; the other on Saturdays beginning January 12. This class will be open to the public, so bring a friend. Attendees should dress comfortably and bring a blanket/beach towel and a small pillow.

For more information on Ritual Body Postures, you can visit the website of Cuyamungue Institute at http://www.ritualbodypostures.com/index.html or google "ecstatic body postures."

Cakes for the Queen of Heaven: In Ancient Times

This is actually the long-awaited sequel to the popular first class on feminist theology, Cakes for the Queen of Heaven, which we offered at BUUF twice, most recently in 2006. So, those who took the first course, be sure to register early for this second part. Those who did not take it, you can start now on your learning of feminist theology. This class will discuss the Goddess in a matriarchal society.

In Ancient Times by Rev. Shirley Ann Ranck introduces participants to ancient Goddesses, weaving their stories together with major concerns of women today. This 5-session adult religious education curriculum (for anyone 14 years and older) includes themes such as, The Sacred Female, In the Name of the Mother and the Daughter, Womanpower, The First Turning -- From Goddess to God, and Reclaiming Women's Heritage of Peace.

Class Information: This class is open to anyone 14 years and older. It will be offered on weekday evenings in the Spring, so stay tuned for specific times/dates. Cost for this class is $10. You will be able to register online or pick up a registration form at BUUF and give to Teresa. This class will also be open to the public.

This curriculum was published by UU Women & Religion. You can read more about it on their website: http://www.uuwr.org/store.htm#curricula


CHILDREN'S CLASS SCHEDULE

November
4 - Lesson 5: Lewis Latimer: A Bright Idea
11 - Lesson 6: Lydia Maria Child: Writing for Freedom (Teens stay in service)
18 - If BUUF was the World (Thanksgiving lesson led by Renee Kauffman)
25 - No classes (Thanksgiving weekend)

December
2 - Lesson 7: Christopher Reeve (a super man)
9 - Lesson 8: Sophia Lyon Fahs: Each Night a Child is Born is a Holy Night
16 - Holiday Party - (Teresa leading classes)
23 - Children sing Yuletide songs in service (no classes)
29 - No classes

   
 
In the BUUF . . . November 2007
 
 
The Principles of the Unitarian Universalist Association

Unitarian Universalism (UU) draws from many sources: Direct experience of that transcending mystery and wonder, affirmed in all cultures, which moves us to a renewal of the spirit and an openness to the forces which create and uphold life...

(more next month)
 
 
 
 
 
 
Cajon Pass Near San Diego
Photo of Cajon Pass near San Diego

UUA.org current topic: UUA Begins Fire Relief Fund to Help Californians ... see article at right.
 
 
WORLD-RENOWNED CHICAGO CHILDREN’S CHOIR MADRIGALS TO PERFORM WITH ALL GOD’S CHILDREN COMMUNITY CHOIR

On Sunday, November 18th, the Madrigal Singers from the world-renowned Chicago Children’s Choir will perform in concert with the 10 to 18 year old members of Southwest Michigan’s All God’s Children Community Choir. The performance, which will begin at 4 pm, will be held at the YWCA building, 508 Pleasant St., in downtown St. Joseph. Admission to the performance is free; donations will be appreciated.

The Chicago Children’s Choir is a multiracial, multicultural choral music education organization, “shaping the future by making a difference in the lives of children and youth through musical excellence.” Founded in 1956, the Choir has grown from a handful of children to encompass:
  • 67 In-School choruses in 50 Chicago elementary schools
  • 6 After-School Neighborhood Choirs at sites throughout the city
  • The world-renowned Concert Choir, which has performed in Chicago with the Chicago Symphony Orchestra, The Lyric Opera of Chicago, The Joffrey Ballet, Bobby McFerrin, Celine Dion, Ladysmith Black Mambazo, and many others. Tours and extended residencies have included all regions of the United States; Canada; Mexico; Puerto Rico; Europe; Japan; and South Africa.
  • The 16-voice Madrigal Ensemble encompasses the most advanced singers from the Concert Choir. The Madrigals perform a diverse repertoire of a cappella music, ranging from Renaissance madrigals to vocal jazz.
The All God’s Children Community Choir is a multiracial, multicultural group of enthusiastic and talented children and teens, ages 3 to 18, drawn from ten different communities in Southwest Michigan. The Choir sings songs of brotherhood and sisterhood, unity, friendship, peace, and respect for all people. Formed in 2001 by members of the Race Relations Council of Southwest Michigan, All God’s Children has performed on more than 70 occasions, including featured appearances at Lake Michigan College and Andrews University to celebrate the birthday of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., a special performance for former President Jimmy Carter, concerts in Grand Rapids and Traverse City for state and national teachers’ conferences, and performances with renowned professional musicians Tom Chapin, Josh White, Jr., Gemini, Nikki Harris, and Pamela Chappell (with whom All God’s Children has recorded an award-winning CD).

Contact: Larry and Sandy Feldman 269-469-0539

UUA Begins Fire Relief Fund to Help Californians

The fires that swept across southern California have affected Unitarian Universalists (UUs) in many communities. Fires were burning in Santa Barbara, Ventura, Los Angeles, San Bernardino, Riverside, Orange and San Diego Counties. Damage reports remain incomplete at this time. According to the Unitarian Universalist Association's (UUA) Pacific Southwest District (PSWD) Executive Ken Brown, ninety percent of the members of our Chalice Congregation in Escondido have evacuated their homes, with several homes burned. Meanwhile, members of other UU congregations have opened their homes to the evacuees. In response to this disaster, the Pacific Southwest District of the UUA has begun the PSWD Fire Relief Fund. A district committee will disburse all funds collected to UU congregations, UUs in need, community groups in relationship with UU congregations, and other groups supporting those most in need. Ken Brown notes, "As we have found in the past, insurance does not cover such devastation and it can take years for those affected to recover." Donations to the PSWD Fire Relief Fund are being accepted online via the UUA web site, www.uua.org.

If you wish to contribute by mail, please send funds to: Pacific Southwest District Fire Relief Fund 2052 Norma Street, Oxnard, CA 93036

   
 
In the BUUF . . . November 2007
 
A Girl Named Zippy
 
BUUF Book Ciub meets at members' homes...Friday November 2, hostess Amy Eklund
 
 
 
 
BUUF Goods and Services Auction
 
 
 
 
 
Winter WomanSpirit 2008
Dancing on the Threhold of Balance: 20 Years of WomanSpirit
 
 
BUUF BOOK CLUB . . . Amy Eklund

Hello fellow bibliophiles!

The next meeting is Friday, November 2 and we will be discussing She Got Up Off the Couch by Haven Kimmel as well as the earlier book, A Girl Named Zippy. Shall we wear period dress if we can find anything reminiscent of the era in our closets/attics/basements?

Last month we chose Lighthousekeeping by Jeanette Winterson as our next selection. There are quite a number of these books in hardcover for sale through half.com for less than a buck which comes to only $5.00 with shipping.

UUs in the News

The latest issue of Ms. Magazine celebrates their 35th anniversary. In the article "Then and Now" on page 13, a tidbit titled "Clergy" has this to say:
_______________________________
CLERGY
1972: Only three major U.S. religions have significant numbers of women clergy: Unitarian Universalist (4%, 1974), United Church of Christ (4%) and Presbyterian (5%). The first woman Reform Jewish rabbi is ordained.
2007: Women are 51% of Unitarian [Universalist] ministers; 20%-31% of United Church of Christ, Presbyterian, Episcopal and United Methodist ministers, and Reform Rabbis.
Mormons, Roman Catholics, Orthodox Jews and Southern Baptists still ban women clergy. In Islam, women imams are highly controversial."
_______________________________

They didn't happen to include this in their online version of the article. http://www.msmagazine.com.

This shift in clergy can be traced back to the UUA's 1977 Women and Religion Resolution. www.uuwr.org/resolution.htm.

Auction of Goods and Services / Chili-Cornbread Cook-Off

Saturday, November 3rd, BUUF's Auction and Chili Cook-Off, begins at 6pm. The New News is that the children will have their own Silent Auction to bid on!. There are lots and lots of goods and services and we need BUUF members and friends as well as their guests to make this a successful fun event. Bring your Holiday Shopping List, appetites, checkbooks for a fun evening. Please RSVP for childcare, Chris at 269-861-0436.

WINTER WOMANSPIRIT
Will be held at North Shore Unitarian Church in Deerfield Illinois on February 22-24, 2008. Join your UU sisters from all over Central Midwest Distict! Our keynote speaker will be Rev. Shirley Ranck, PhD, author of the ground-breaking adult religious education curriculum "Cakes for the Queen of Heaven." *

Shirley's talk will be titled "ON THE THRESHOLD." It is said that St. Bridget, named for the Old Goddess of Creativity, was born on a threshold. Her story is that she lived her life on the threshold between the Old Pagan tradition of reverence for both Goddess and God and the new patriarchal deities of Christianity. Today we live on another threshold between the last violent upheavals of patriarchy gone wild, and a new era in which our hope is that our identities will be widened and our connectedness with all of life will be made central and sacred.

Let us take a fresh look at feminist thealogy in this new century. Where have we come from? Where are we going? With a special look at the theological contributions of Sophia Lyon Fahs, a woman who was way ahead of her time.

Presented by the Women and Religion Committee of the Central Midwest District Unitarian Universalist Association and the WWS 2008 Retreat Committee. See www.womenandreligion.org for more details.

   
 
In the BUUF . . . November 2007
 
Ibrahim Parlak
 
Ibhrahim Parlak
 
 
 
 
 
Look for the Sunday Sign-Up Sheet right next to the kitchen door!
 
 
 
 
UUA chalice
BUUF is a part of the UUA's Central Midwest District
 
CARING FOR OUR FELLOWSHIP . . . Emily Bettencourt and Tom Hackley
Reflections on Covenant: As I write this, Tom and I are driving down to Cincinnati on this beautiful afternoon. The words of Gail Geisenhainer’s sermon this morning of being in “covenant with a beloved community” are resonating in our heads. We are with a group of friends who love and support Ibrahim Parlak as he seeks justice from the country where he sought and received political asylum in the late 1980’s. As a Turkish Kurd he was arrested, jailed and tortured before coming here to start a new life of freedom. For a while he found it. We have been friends with Ibrahim since he moved to our Harbert community in the early 90’s. He and various members of his family lived off and on in our cottage as he built up his restaurant business to what it is today, the center of our community. After 9-11, when he attempted to start the paper work to become a citizen, he found himself being interviewed by Homeland Security and eventually jailed for 9 months. His arrest in 2004 was a shock and outrage to us and our community, resulting in the birth of The Friends of Ibrahim, an incredible grassroots organization and legal team for justice. It has been a very difficult two weeks as this Oct. 22 District Court appeal drew near. This is the appeal in the Sixth District Court of Appeals of the deportation order by the Department of Immigration and Customs Enforcement. Whatever the outcome, we who believe in Ibrahim will not rest until he is free of the fear of deportation, and his path to citizenship is cleared. Ibrahim’s situation and experience has made this secure lakeside community painfully awake to the injustices that has been dealt out to groups who no longer can hope for justice or a new beginning for themselves and their families.

Any group that is the focus of injustice needs a beloved community that supports and fights for them. Rev. Gail Geisenhainer sermon at General Assembly in St.Louis in 2006 and replayed today focuses on gays, lesbians, bi-sexual and transgender isolation and discrimination. Her very personal story of being in covenant with one another in a beloved community to heal, and change from the persecuted and isolated and the wholeness it brings for both individual and community, resonates over and over again in this mini van of Friends of Ibrahim. Tom and I feel blessed to be part of two such beloved communities: the Friends of Ibrahim and BUUF. For those of you who missed Rev. Geisenhainer’s sermon, you may borrow the DVD from us by calling 269-978-8432.

Appreciation: Marian Steward has for several years shown her love and concern for this community by sending birthday greetings on behalf of BUUF to members and friends. Marian has now passed the pen and opportunity to express the Fellowship’s birthday greetings to Janice Zerfas. Thank you, Marian for these years of bringing positive words to each of us on our special day; and Thank you, Janice for being so willing to continue these acts of kindness and friendship.
Heavy Hearts: Friends, Marsha Laya has been hit pretty hard (see below). Please reach out to her however you can. Her address is 3081 Wheatfield Dr. , Sherwood , MI 49089
----- Original Message ----- From: Marsha Laya To: Emily Bettencourt Sent: Sunday, October 28, 2007 10:59 AM Subject: More bad news
Dear Emily: Our family has had another tragedy. Lee's granddaughter, Maggy Frizzo (age 17; HS Senior) and her friend Lauren were in an automobile accident on Friday evening. Both girls remain unconscious as of this writing. We have been "camping" out at the hospital playing the waiting game. Doctors seem to be giving our family hope that Maggy will recover, though she is in for a long recovery... There is nothing more with respect to the investigation regarding my brother... Investigators have been in contact with my brother, Don and nephew, David, Jr. stating they have had many leads, all ending up at a dead end. I truly understand the statement "heavy heart". It feels like I'm carrying a bag of sand in my chest. Tears are so close to the surface and sometime surprise me when they flow unexpectedly at the most inopportune times. But there is strength drawn from the love of family and friends. Thank you for your caring support. Emily, you are the only UU member that I have in my address book. Please feel free to pass this along to my old friends at BUUF. Sincerely, Marsha Laya and Lee Smittendorf

Healing Hearts: Heartha Whitlow came home from the hospital on Tuesday the 30th. She had one stent put in to correct a blockage. We're glad she's home!

Have a Great Thanksgiving. See you in Fellowship,
Emily Bettencourt and Tom Hackley - Membership Team
 
Berrien Unitarian Universalist Fellowship
4340 Lincoln Ave., St. Joseph, MI 49085 * 269-429-2883 * www.buuf2.org * office at buuf2.org